Professor Richard Wiseman, PhD, author of Quirkology says the pick-up line that works 100% of the time is, “If you were going to be a pizza topping, what topping would you be?” What makes a pick-up line work? Any question that gets someone to relax, open up and talk about themselves. This question is not [...]

got this email this morning from a woman seeking advice. Below is my advice to her as well as all women who are ruining a perfectly good relationship because they’re focused on the wrong thing: Hi Kara, I was wondering if you could help me, i love my boyfriend but he is not the romantic [...]

In a Bottom Line Personal there was an article titled The Music Cure. It talked about the healthy benefits of music from pain relief, heart help, help for stroke and Parkinson’s patients, dementia relief, and breathing difficulties. I’m working on a book titled Flirting Made Easy. In my books and articles and on my radio [...]

Modern women are used to going after what they want and many have successfully “landed their man.” But there are risks that are often subtle and go unnoticed. The primary risk is that men don’t like aggressive women. At least not when it comes to having one of their primary manly jobs taken from them. [...]

Do you have a long list that describes the man you’re looking for? That’s good. Make it as long as you want. But when it comes to dating and finding the right man for you, how strict are you about that list? The longer the list of what you absolutely have to have, the less [...]

Okay, if you have a goal to be more attractive, WHY ON EARTH would you put a thick dark brown or almost black line around your lips? WHAT ARE YOU THINKING? When I’m trying to talk to a woman with contrasting lip liner, even lighter shades, I can’t stop looking at the liner. Sheesh! The [...]

How capable you are of welcoming love into your life is directly related to how much you love yourself. You’ve probably heard that before. Do you know how to tell how much you love yourself? Well, here’s a test that works every time: Just notice your self-talk. How hard are you on yourself? How forgiving, [...]

My focus is helping women “fall madly in love with themselves so they can have a romantic relationship that makes their heart sing.” Dating a married man takes you in the completely opposite direction. With that in mind, here are my thoughts on getting involved with a married men: DON’T DO IT! Don’t flirt; don’t [...]

Since the foundation of what I teach is Feminine Grace it makes me crazy when I see women demeaning themselves. You won’t believe this… there’s a show called Bounce My Jugs. I kid you not. I was looking for a movie title on TiVo and just below was this show. I clicked over to read [...]

Even though much of my writing and teaching has to do with helping people find and maintain a loving relationship, I think Valentine’s Day is a horrible thing to do to society. Men are angst-ridden for fear that they’ll plan the wrong date, get the wrong gift, not spend enough, etc. Women are worried their [...]