Okay, this might get your Feminist hackles up here, but remember, you’re reading this, and my other articles, because your love life isn’t what you want it to be. First, let me say that a man wants to be with a woman he respects. That is when he’s looking for long term. Short term, he’s [...]

Have you ever been interested in, or worse, in love with a man and he leaves for no apparent reason? Maybe it’s because you’re a High Maintenance woman and don’t realize it. Men are ever-watchful to avoid getting involved with high maintenance women. Let me explain why it’s one of the worst things you can [...]

A woman wrote to me concerned that her new boyfriend only texts her and what did I think about that? Here’s my response to her: Funny you should ask about this. The man I’m involved with likes to text me. I was not a texter before, but now, I love it. I realized early on [...]

Joy Behar, one of the co-hosts on Barbara Walter’s show, The View, was telling a story about her fear of mice. Apparently, she saw one in her house and started screaming, even though she was alone. She locked herself in her room with her dogs and called her partner, I think his name is Steve. [...]

I received this story from a friend who generally sends me really great jokes. So it was a surprise to find myself starting to cry at the sweetness of this story. I’ve noticed I treat old people differently now; more patient, more helpful, more willing to talk and make them feel important. And I notice [...]

If you find men not paying much attention to you lately, it might not be you, it might be money worries. With what is going on in the economy men tend to go inward when they are concerned about their finances or their jobs. They aren’t thinking about dating other than maybe to get laid, [...]

I often get requests for advice from women who tell me how wonderful their man is. Then they go into all the things that make them unhappy. If this sounds like you, I would invited you to do an exercise that can be very revealing. On a piece of paper draw a line down the [...]

Women are the leaders in the relationship. Men know it better than women do. A woman can change the tone and energy more easily then they realize… and it’s fun to watch a man respond. The quickest way to shift the energy in the moment–and as the primary way you interact with each other–is to [...]

I think I understand where “warm-fuzzies” came from. I am just finishing “Marley & Me” and each time I pick it up, I cry deep, heartfelt tears. If you ever struggle with finding your daily heart connection here’s a bit from John Grogan’s book: “Was it possible for a dog––any dog, but especially a nutty, [...]

I am a huge proponent of feeling all of your emotions, fully and completely. That’s one of the many joys of being human and female. BUT, there is an overarching emotion that runs your life. Are you positive or negative? Do you notice what’s good in your life, or do you put your emphasis on [...]