For years I’ve been telling women they set the tone of a relationship. If you’re with someone who doesn’t respect you, that’s your fault. Hey, don’t get all huffy with me. From the first conversation, you had the chance to insist on respect… or not. That’s the first test. Testing is what you are supposed to do every step of the way to determine if he’s worthy of you. If you don’t set standards and require his respect, then you get what you deserve.

If you flash your body in tight, revealing clothes, you’re advertising that you don’t respect yourself. You’re inviting the players and that’s what you’ll get. Even the good guys won’t think you’re worthy of anything beyond a couple of dates and some good old fun in the sack.

If you hop in bed with him before you find out what kind of character he has, whether he’s got his life together and if he’s interested in anything more than just a few joinings of your body parts, you get what you deserve.

If you’re afraid to make him wait, afraid if you say not yet he’ll walk, then you don’t value yourself very much. And if that’s the case, why should you expect him to value you?

If you want to find a good man, you’ve got to up your game and start holding out for a good man… not just any man who shows interest. A good man wants and needs to respect the woman he intends to make a long-term commitment to. Make him respct you and you’ll both be happy with the results.

I can teach you exactly how to gain the respect of a good man, how to get him to fall in love with you and never want to let you go. Check it out at DatingMadeEasyEbook.com. But only if you believe you deserve a good man.

From my heart to yours,

Kara Oh
The Heart Whisperer™
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