Your essence is your true, beautiful, glorious, magnificent self. It is what is most attractive to men, especially as we and they get older. When you shine, men notice.

Are you  aware that within you is a woman who is your dream-come-true version of yourself? Do you know that she already exists, waiting for you to invite her to show herself, in her full glory? Are you aware that all you need to do is allow your essence to express itself?

Your essence is expressed through your creativity, through the joy of just being, by loving, by playing, by nurturing yourself as well as others, by enjoying the world through your senses when you take the time to enjoy a luscious scent, a truly amazing meal, the pleasure of touching silken cloth, the beauty of the sun shining through a flower, through sexual expression (which means allowing that energy to flow, not necessarily having a lover), even by dancing in your underwear to your favorite music in your living room… all combined is loving being a woman.

If you’re tired, exhausted, listless, lonely, frustrated, angry, bitter, resentful, unmotivated, you’re simply not connected to your essence, you are not allowing and encouraging your woman energy to flow through you and you are not giving yourself the love and nurturing you need and deserve. If this is going on, how can you expect a man to be attracted to you or want to get close?

To enjoy your life, to draw love to you, to be loved and cared for by friends, family and a good man, you need to be expressing your essence as fully and completely as you can. Every time I get into one of my “potty holes” I know I am much less attractive to everyone with whom I interact. My course, Let The Real You Shine Through is all about you expressing your essence, which will cause you to fall in love with yourself like never before. This is particularly important because how you love yourself is the how-to manual for how a man should love you. You are the living owner’s manual for how to love you, treat you, respect you and enjoy you. If you aren’t doing all these things for yourself, how can you expect a man to? So, my dear, lovely one, how is your essence? Are you showing it to the world? Are you enjoying it? Are you celebrating it? Are you as “shiny” as you can be? If not, I would be honored to show you how.

Make at least one heart connection today, even it it’s with yourself…

From my heart to yours,

The Heart Whisperer™

Kara Oh
“I’ll help you Jump Start Your Heart™”
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