I just got a request for a refund for  my book, Men Made Easy. That doesn’t bother me. It happens. But what bothers me is stupid women. The one that just wrote complained that what I said was obvious and she expected some big revelation. I told her that when I speak in public about men, I warn them that what I’m about to share will seem obvious, some of it they will already know but had forgotten, while other things I share will be new, but will feel familiar because, actually, women already have all the wisdom within them to create amazing relationships. They have just forgotten and been taught things by society that are ruining their ability to create fulfilling romantic relationships.

The book and soon the movie, He’s Just Not That Into You is a perfect example. That’s a big “Duh” when you know the premise of the book. Actually, IT’S SO OBVIOUS that you don’t need to buy the book. The message is clear in the title.

There are only A FEW SIMPLE THINGS that women need to do to make a man fall in love with them. But they don’t want to hear it. These women want to keep cutting a man’s gonads off, then expect him to fall at their feet, grateful that they’re willing to give him even a sliver of attention.

Ladies, IT DOESN’T WORK THAT WAY.

Can you tell I’m angry? My book is called MEN MADE EASY for a reason. There are two basic things men need from a woman to make most relationships work. 1) Be beautiful and gracious in how you treat him. 2) Make him feel like a man. THAT’S IT!!!

But to be beautiful you need to love yourself first.

• No self-loving women would treat men as ugly as I see them doing every day.
• No self-loving woman would allow men to treat them the way they do.
• No self-loving women would want to be with a man who is anything less than respectful, kind, loving and adoring.

When you follow my “obvious” secrets about men, you end up with an amazing relationship.

My fiance’, Chris, is 63, very handsome, 6′2″, loving, romantic, generous, kind, even wealthy… basically, pretty much the ideal man.

Consequently, because women are attracted to him, he’s dated a lot of women over the years, been married once and engaged twice. He has told me over and over and over again that he has never, in all that experience, met a woman who makes him feel so good to be a man, so happy to have a woman like me, and so wanting to do everything he can to make me happy. How did this happen? I do the “obvious” that I rarely see other women doing. I treat him with respect which he gives me in return. I let him know I value his strength and masculine traits. I appreciate the many things he does to make me happy. I never belittle him or, as he says other women have always done, “beat him up.” Basically, I treat him the same way I want to be treated. I call it Feminine Grace and it’s a forgotten art. I actually have a school that teaches women the fine art of Feminine Grace. It’s The School Of Charm, Seduction and Feminine Grace.

I’m not a wuss. I am a strong, capable, powerful woman. He knows that and respect that about me. He supports me in my work and does everything he can to help me when I ask for it.

YES, this is all very obvious. But are you doing this? Do you make it a rule to never, ever belittle a man? Any man, not just the man you’re with? If you are a male-basher and think men are stupid, you can’t turn that on and off. Men pick up on that. If your beautiful, it takes them a bit longer but eventually, they get it and run. Then you call them commitment-phobes.

So, ladies, get over yourself and start doing what is so “obvious.” If you can pull it off, you’ll start to see  men paying a lot more interest, showing you much more respect and even awe. Why? Because it’s so rare for them to meet a woman with Feminine Grace. Try it, you might like it and for sure he will. You might also like to know what I’ve got in one of my other books, Stop Blowing It With Men, a companion book to Date Smart and Win His Heart. Unfortunately, for both men and women, women are blowing it but they also have the power to turn things around.

From my heart to yours,

The Heart Whisperer™

Kara Oh
KaraOh.com
DateSmartWinHisHeart.com
SecretsToDatingSuccess.com
WomenSharingSolutions.com