I’ve been reading Eckhart Tolle’s book, A New Earth, Awakening To Your Life’s Purpose. On page 88 he talks about how we play rolls to attract someone to “make me happy, make me feel special, make me feel complete.” The problem with rolls is that we’re not showing a man our true, authentic self. So if he falls in love with your role, it won’t last. But most likely, because your energy is not “clean” but kind of muddy, he most likely won’t be interested.

I have no desire to guide women to be “in a relationship. ” I only have an interest in guiding women to be in a GREAT relationship. If you are hoping a man will make you happy, you will never be satisfied. That’s because happiness can only come from inside you. Until you understand that, and want it bad enough to do whatever you can to make that a reality, you will always be seeking, never knowing how good life can be.

Here are a few snippits from Let The Real You Shine Through, one of my self-guided courses. It’s designed to help you glow brightly, as your most authentic, happy self. Why is this important? The happier you are, the brighter you will glow and the brighter you glow, the more quality men you will attract.

Here’s an excerpt from Let The Real You Shine Through:

Definition of Woman Energy: Woman Energy is the energy that flows through each woman, allowing her to feel love, sensuality, sexuality, nurturing and the exuberance for life, joy, happiness and spiritual adventure. When any part of this energy is stuck a woman will not feel fully alive. To the degree she’s not feeling fully alive, she is going to be invisible or even repulsive to men.

The primary goal of this course is for you to unblock your Woman Energy so you become the most attractive you’ve ever been, even more than when you were in your 20s. When your Woman Energy is flowing smoothly you will actually glow. Your Glow is what will cause men to be drawn to you.

You don’t know it yet, but if your Glow isn’t all it can be then you cannot love and be loved, at least not to the degree you would like. On the flip side of that is something just as troubling: if your Glow isn’t radiating men won’t be attracted to you. They see you as an individual, but they don’t really notice you, which means they can’t see you as a potential mate. They need to be attracted for that to happen. Men need to feel your Glow pulsating out toward them. Otherwise, it’s almost as if you’re invisible. They aren’t aware that all this is going on, and they don’t need to be. You do. You’re in charge of your Glow and my goal is to help you get it dusted off, polished shiny-bright, and radiating like never before in your life.

Throughout time the heart has been used as a metaphor and symbol of love. What I can do for you is to gently guide you to awaken your ability to open your heart so your soul mate can find you and your life can be fuller, freer and filled with love. Once you’ve accomplished that, you’ll be the kind of woman men notice… in all the ways you want. And even more important, you’ll be happier.

You Are Most Attractive When You Are Happy and Fulfilled

When your Glow starts flowing you’ll notice that you step a little livelier, you smile more often and life seems a bit more sparkly. And you’ll also notice men looking at you with new-found interest. When you get your Glow moving at full throttle, you’ll be truly magnificent.

I hope this helps you be more inspired to make your own happiness, real, true, authentic happiness, your top priority. Then you won’t be “needing” a man, you’ll want one for all the right reasons. And believe me, this change alone will completely transform how men respond to you. Neediness repels men, wanting them draws them to you. It’s all up to you…

From my heart to yours,

The Heart Whisperer™

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