Someone received a message from me and at the bottom after my name I always put The Heart Whisperer™ and Director of The School Of Charm, Seduction and Feminine Grace. I got the following message back from one man:

Sounds good. But how do you teach seduction? I learned from Playboy. (A lot of good it did me)

Here’s my response to him:

There’s an art to seduction. When a woman is being blatantly sexy, she’s not being seductive. And when a man is just trying to get into a woman’s panties, that’s not seduction. Watch some old Carey Grant movies. A man who honors who a woman is, who is respectful, playful in a gentlemanly way, who takes his time with each step of the process of seduction, is what a woman will want. When I used to teach my sex workshops I brought in a panel of men or women, depending on the gender of the audience. Whenever I asked the women what I should tell the men, they always said to tell them to SLOOOOOOW down.

Obviously, there’s more to it than that, but hopefully you get my drift. There’s an entire community online called PUA. Stands for Pick Up Artists. That is definitely not seduction.

From my heart to yours,

The Heart Whisperer™

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