A facebook friend asked me the following question:

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Kara,

I just ordered your book last night in the middle of the night!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m so excited to devour it. So, new communication skills. GREAT, seeing as I already speak several languages. But, I have a date tonight! The book won’t arrive until…

HOW do I communicate I want more “connection” in a way he’ll get it?? Show Don Juan de Marco?? ; )

THANK YOU!!!!!!!
Sonya

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My response:

Let him know how it makes you feel (all those juicy womanly things) when he does the things you like. This encourages him to do more rather than complaining that he’s falling short.

And do let him know the ways he makes you happy, the ways he makes you feel like a woman, the masculine things you admire and appreciate about him. These will all make him see you as someone he wants more of… because you make him feel so good. He’ll associate those feelings with you because most everywhere else, he’s being torn down or feeling insecure because he’s always comparing himself to where he stands in the hierarchy of men.

Most important secret in Men Made Easy: A man wants to be with a woman who makes him feel like a man.

When you give him that, he’ll be more open to wanting to make you happy. Men like it when you tell them specifically what will make you happy.

Specifically: When you ….. it makes me feel so …… You definitely know how to make me happy.
This will encourage more “good” behavior.

I hope that helps,
Kara
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Her response:

Kara,
It TOTALLY WORKED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG!!!!!!!
BLUSHING THANKS
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