It’s not uncommon, when a woman who is wanting to get her ex back, for her to purchase my Men Made Easy program, hoping it will help her. Because any woman who embraces what I teach will find herself changing in many positive ways, there is a chance that she could get him back. That’s because my program teaches women what a man REALLY wants, how to treat him differently than any other woman ever has–including how SHE treated him in the past–and how to get what she wants in such a way that the man actually WANTS to give it to her, she will definitely be different than she was prior to their break up.

The tricky part is letting him know how you’ve changed. You can’t just say, “I’ve changed, take me back.” For one thing, men are quick to shut the door to heartache and move on. They do this so they won’t have to feel what’s going on inside of them. They’re also wary that you really have changed.

• Men Made Easy points out all the ways you may have emasculated your man and why that is the worst thing you could have done. If you’ve been doing that, the following technique I’m going to describe could work.

• Men Made Easy shows you the different ways you’ve likely been ‘ugly’ to him in the past, and why that was so destructive to your relationship. If you’ve been doing these things, this technique could work.

• Men Made Easy shows you the many ways you’ve done exactly the opposite to get what you want and how that has driven him away. If you’ve been doing any of these things, this technique could work.

This does not mean he didn’t do things wrong as well. But this is not about blaming him, it’s about letting him know you understand better what happened and how it could have been different.

Even if this technique I’m going to explain doesn’t bring him back, it will be a good thing for you to do. That’s because it will be a cleansing of your spirit so you can move on and find love again.

How To Let Him Know You’ve Changed

Depending on whether or not you have contact, here are some ways you can let him know you’ve changed. If you see each other occasionally, you can show him with your more beautiful energy and by the way you communicate with him. Or, if you’re emailing, you can say it in writing.For these situations, you can let him know the things I recommend below over several meetings or emails.

If you are having no contact, you can write a letter, but not in a way that sounds like you’re trying to get him back, just letting him know how you’ve seen how it could have been and wish him well.

What you want to say, to show him you have, indeed, changed, is the following–but in your own words, of course:

1) Tell him you have been doing a lot of soul searching and you now see what you did to damage your relationship.

1a) Detail the things you did wrong, using what you’ve learned in Men Made Easy.
• How you emasculated him
• How you were ugly
• How you didn’t let him know how important he was
• How you didn’t appreciate the things he did to make you happy ( you can offer details here)

2) Detail what you now see you should and could have done.

3) Tell him you were so caught up in your own world that you lost sight of what an amazing man he is. Then detail all the things you admire and appreciate about him, especially those things you know he admires about himself.

If a letter is your only way to communicate these things, then tell him you’re sorry for what happened, and wish him happiness and love.

Don’t forget that more often than not, it’s over because it should be. We often want an ex back because we’re lonely, we miss having someone around, there’s a gaping hole where he once was that wants to be filled and the feelings of attachment are still strong. It takes wisdom and intuition to know what to do.

From my heart to yours,

The Heart Whisperer™