You’ve heard of “self talk,” right? Well, all those things you tell yourself, either silently or out loud, become beliefs. I hear women say things like, “All men are morons,” “All of the good men are taken,” “I hate dating,” “Dating is such a waste of time,” “I’m never going to meet a good man,” “Men are only interested in one thing.” Any of these sound familiar?

The problem with these kind of thoughts is they become embedded in your brain, psyche and even your heart, and it changes your energy. You begin to look for verification that you’re right and guess what? You’ll begin to find it. It will also cause you to be shut off to all men. Think about it, if you believe any of those things above, you’ll make the assumption that they’re “guilty” until proven otherwise. And when your brain is searching to see if they are any of those negative things, a man is going to pick up on it. This is how man haters are born. It starts with one idea, than that causes you to think of more reasons why man are not okay, and then another.

So if you want to meet a great guy, then you need to start assuming most men are great. Sure, some of them won’t be, but you know what, most are if you just give them a chance. Of course, most won’t be the right man for you, but if you are open to the possibility that he is, it’s MUCH more likely that you will meet a terrific man. Believing that most men are good also causes your energy to be more enticing, alluring and attractive. So  more men will be interested in you. AND, here’s a really big idea, you will be happier because you will become a more positive person.

If you want to put out the most alluring energy possible, I highly recommend you get my book, Men Made Easy, so you can understand what is really going on in their hearts and souls. The benefits are many.

From my heart to yours,

The Heart Whisperer™