It’s amazing how much women stress over what something a man said or did means. This is especially prevalent in the beginning of a relationship. Much of this need to know what it means has to do with wanting to move the relationship forward faster than it’s going. This goes back to the need to control.

When we try to control people or situations (which usually involve people) it keeps us from being the moment and from the Ever Evolving ebb and flow of a relationship. Rather than focusing on what it means, it’s better to pay attention to what a man does. Be in the moment and allow the relationship to unfold in it’s own way, in it’s own time. So often, women stress about what things mean that they end up not enjoying all the sweet stages of a relationship as it develops.

It’s best to let go of the need to try to make it more than it is, or less than you hope for at whatever stage it’s at. Just be happy he has feelings for you and watch to be sure he is kind, caring and respectful. That’s the most important thing in a new relationship. To learn more about how to understand men and get more of what you want in your relationships with them, I invite you to take a look at Men Made Easy.

From my heart to yours,

The Heart Whisperer™