Do you have a long list that describes the man you’re looking for? That’s good. Make it as long as you want. But when it comes to dating and finding the right man for you, how strict are you about that list? The longer the list of what you absolutely have to have, the less likely you’ll ever find your Mr. Right.

Too often, women go on a first date with their laundry list and start ticking off each item. The men say they feel like they’re being interviewed. Too many women – and men – say no to someone because of things that, in the long run, don’t have anything to do with creating a fulfilling, enduring relationship.

Sure, go ahead and make your list, but the only things that should really matter are:

• You enjoy each others company
• You respect and admire each other
• You share common values
• You have compatible convictions
• You genuinely like each other

So, make your list, then let go of everything except those things that have to do with what kind of man he is, then allow magic to happen. It doesn’t matter how tall he is or how much hair he has if you really care about being with someone you truly care about.

Your energy has to be open to receive and your heart has to be open for magic to happen. When you’re focused on your list, your energy is in a hard, rigid place, not soft and perceptive like it needs to be to notice those more subtle things that lie just beneath the surface. And if you’re open and curious about what kind of man he is and what kind of match he’ll be for you, your energy will be inviting to him. You do want him to be attractive to him, don’t you?

Next date, just have fun and see what unfolds.

From my heart to yours,
Kara
The Heart Whisperer™

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